YAY!

LMAO! So Scott has agreed to go back to my schedule – If I didn’t tell you we were trying it HIS way the last few weeks. Snc I came up with my schedule he has been bitching and bitching that its not fair and his way is the only fair way. His way didn’t make sense. His way was I watch Kendra while he is working and he watches her when I am working. That SOUNDS decent until you think about it. There are times were both me and scott are both off at the same time, who has her then? Then his schedule is sporadic he gets his next weeks schedule on Sunday. So ther was NO planning of anything, even the things that have been planned for a while now like me being out of town this weekend, the sesame street show im taking her too, the Dane Cook concert – among many other thing – all of those were scheduled accordingly when we were following my plan. It was a very confusing schedule there were days where I didn’t see Kendra for 3 days, there were days where I Had her for 4 days in a row and she didn’t get to see her daddy. I knew what would come of this. The inconsistency would mess with Kendra, Children need some sort of stability. Kendra needs to see her mama AND he father every day and sleep in the same place over night. So I knew that trying out Scotts schedule would really mess with her, make her moody and confused and sad and ect. And it did. The ONLY reason I tried it was to show to scott why is DOESN'T work. His problem with my schedule was that he had her too much and it wasn’t fair to him (we have her the SAME exact amount of time by the way on ym sched.) but with his schedule he had her twice as much as me, I pointed this out but he didn’t want to see it – again his control issue that even though his plan sucks he wont acknowledge it because its HIS plan. Yet, through all the flaws I pointed out he still held tight into this. I told him snc we split over a year ago what the courts will want and it will be similar if not identical to my schedule. I went thru my mom and dads yeaarrss long divorce when I was 10, I know what the courts want. So finally after he talked to his lawyer his lawyer told him what I have been telling him the whole time. Even his lawyer said that the schedule that I came up with is perfect and if we go by that schedule it will save us a lot of time and money when we go to court. SO we are back to the normal Schedule. I am soo happy I get to see my girl everyday and we have already seen a big change in her moods. Consistency works wonders for kids lol. alright. Back to work. Talk to you later gater!