Monday, April 27, 2009

Metallica Tix, Big Boobs and Childrens Independence

So I often...almost always...buy things without looking at prices. I just happened to print out the Metallica tickets I bought for Hector and together they are about $200.00! great seats and all and I’m sure will be well worth it but holy hell! Hope my lawyer doesn’t mind a late payment haha. then again $200.00 is just about 2 1/2 hours of her work ($75 an hour!!) but I’m exited. I'm so glad I was able to do this for him. He's funny, when I told him that I got him the tickets he was so exited but then stopped and asked "now your for real right? Your not going to pull an Anna on me are you?" (An Anna would be saying, promising something and then suddenly something ((made up)) crazy happens to where it can’t happen anymore) lol so I don’t think he fully believes it until he is holding the tickets in his hand tonight. I’m exited, I’m exited to see them myself but to be able to give Hec something super special that he's always wanted, it’s a wonderful feeling and I can’t wait!!

So Scott has been on good behavior lately. He seems to always be nice and civil when he has a girlfriend. This new one’s name is Amy. They work together. But I really hope this works out for him, not only because he’s nice when he has a girlfriend lol but because he is happier. Everyone needs someone! Kendra says she’s nice. HAHAHA I was giving Ken a bath yesterday and washing her hair and she starts talking about how Daddy, Amy and herself went to the aquarium and she’s telling me all about what she saw. Then she says “an Amy slept in my daddies bed last night” haha I HAD to call Scott and joke with him about that. Kendra also explained how Amy had big boobies, but not as big as mama’s boobies and that one day she (Kendra) will have big boobies like me hahahaha. You HAVE to love it when they get to this age, all the things they say, its hilarious!! Like Kendra’s favorite singer is Pink and the band Sugar land. I don’t know why but she lo0o0o0ves them. Her favorite TV Show is Ellen ( we have watched it everyday snc she was in my belly) and her favorite song.. she refers to it as her “ima diva” song lol I don’t know the name but is one of Beyonces new ones, “a diva is the female version of a hustler” I think she likes it because the background voices sound like the chipmunks. Its so wonderful how they develop and find what THEY like. Often we will be watching a show together and she will just chime in with “I don like those shoes mama” or in the case of American Idol, I LOVE LOVE LOVE the red head, Allison, Kendra on the other hand LOVES that emo kid..Adam I think his name is and after he sings she will try to imitate his screams lol. She used to always ask first “do you like those shoes mama” and if I said yes then she would agree and if I said no then she too would not like them. So after I noticed that, when she would ask me if I liked something I wouldn’t answer and instead ask her “do YOU like them?” and wait for her response, and then tell her mine and often say that just because I like it doesn't mean she has to like it. I think its VERY important to let your kids be who they want to be. And right now its little things like songs and outfits but later in life it will be important that they know that just because their friends like or do something, that doesn't mean they have to as well. It’s a hard thing to find a middle ground where you let your children be who they need to be while still letting them know that as momma (or daddy) you are still boss. Lol. okiedokes enough of my lunch time thoughts. Off to review, make, send out or laugh at 33 more contracts and prelims and ereports by the end of the day - dontcha love end of the month crunch time?

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